The Catholic Life: A life of Dialog And Witness, Rightly Understood...and how it applies to the Vatican II crisis
Vatican II and it's abuses need not prejudice us against the need for dialog with others. In the Lucan account of the life and ministry of Jesus (ch. 9 ) we see a remarkable early tension between Jesus and His disciples as the latter struggled toward spiritual maturity and vision:
Who Will Be the Greatest? "An argument started among the disciples as to which of them would be the greatest.
Jesus, knowing their thoughts, took a little child and had him stand beside him.
Then he said to them, "Whoever welcomes this little child in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. For he who is least among you all--he is the greatest."
"Master," said John, "we saw a man driving out demons in your name and we tried to stop him, because he is not one of us."
"Do not stop him," Jesus said, "for whoever is not against you is for you."
Samaritan Opposition
"As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem. And he sent messengers on ahead, who went into a Samaritan village to get things ready for him; but the people there did not welcome him, because he was heading for Jerusalem. When the disciples James and John saw this, they asked, "Lord, do you want us to call fire down from heaven to destroy them[3]?" But Jesus turned and rebuked them, "You do not know what spirit you are made of. The Son of man came not to destroy but to save them;" and they went to another village. "Do not stop him," Jesus said, "for whoever is not against you is for you."
There is something in human nature, a certain covetousness or stinginess, which even intrudes itself into spiritual areas. Like the Pelagians of old, we want to think we became spiritual by our own wits and intellectual lights---and too bad for the other fellow.
It pleases our vanity, feeds our egos, and, if not checked, issues in what the Church fathers called "spiritual gluttony" and pride which is a contradiction of the heart of the Gospel itself, and indeed becomes a mockery of it. And just as a fish is said to rot from the head down, we end up like the Pharisees of old who thank God that they are not like all the other sinners. The Kingdom then becomes a private pass, a membership stamp for the Exclusive.
Such is spiritual blindness.
And worst of all, we then forget the incredible bounty of God's generosity:
Mark 2:16:
When the teachers of the law who were Pharisees saw him eating with the "sinners" and tax collectors, they asked his disciples: "Why does he eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?" 17 On hearing this, Jesus said to them, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners."
The Church has always reminded Catholics that the Gospel message is both witness and dialogue and that both are part of the Church's
missionary endeavor. To proclaim the Kingdom with any degree of credibility we must first reflect the heart of the Kingdom ourselves. We must strive to become meek, peacemakers, reconcilers, consolers, heralds of real social justice, generous toward sinners---knowing full well that we too are sinners---inclined to forgive more and more, not less and less, willing to serve and take the least position of power as children of the Church Christ gifted to mankind.
The Place of Dialog Dialog is important in witnessing to the Kingdom because it shows a generous understanding of the complex baggage---intellectual, cultural, and religious---which almost all persons are heir to in our time. When one is not born Catholic / Christian, one can hardly be expected to understand the many things Catholics believe all at once. Goodness, I know very many Catholics who do not know much of their catechism themselves. So in dialog we share with one another (whether one to one or institutionally) and shun all mean-spirited polemics (i.e., an argumentative, warring spirit). Only with those within the faith who should know better and who obstinately teach false doctrines is argument sometimes appropriate, the Apostles said. Even here discernment is required however.

I realize that I have always practiced dialog, even when the concept seemed confusing and threatening to me. I never wanted to bash someone on the head with my Catholicism when in personal discussions, so, innumerable times, when spiritual things came up with people who did not share my faith, I would listen, applaud the things they shared with the Church (theism, belief in Christ sometimes, hope for world peace, all values of the Kingdom) and be grateful for that.
The fathers taught that the "seeds of the logos" [upon which grace builds] are in all religions and philosophies, and that even the pagan writings of old were in part "forerunners" or preparation for the Gospel. When the three wise men from the East knelt at the Nativity Cave of Our Lord's birth, they were not prepared for a full theological exam. They were prepared to adore and offer gifts. They followed the light they had. And it led to the Light of the world! People are often on their way to Catholic truth, following grace, or on the descent away from it, by abusing grace. We must meet them where they
are. Anne Catherine Emmerich in her
Life of Jesus Christ and Biblical Revelations shows how wonderfully, beautifully Our Lord Himself did this with people, looking often to the heart more than to the head.
Following the Light We Have Few of us can possibly process all doctrinal truths (or errors) at once. It takes time, if we ever arrive at all. The beginning of study is not the end of study. Especially considering the long cumbersome and often sorry histories which have led us all to the different places we are at today. Dialog respects the need for
processing truths in time. Sometimes the greatest doubters become the greatest believers, but seldom overnight. Sometimes we must put up with argumentative spirits who in a certain defensiveness against their own doubts, perhaps, must display vehemence and make us the objects of their fury, even as they ponder things more calmly---or at least more quietly---when they lay their heads on their pillows at night. We can offer such sufferings for them, knowing what struggles they have been cast into.
The hardest thing to do is change, because pride can cause suffering and embarrassment. Yet only dead things do not change. And even those who do not worry about pride can suffer in the process of changing since transition is often accompanied by a certain anxiety. We Catholics are not immune from (existential, as opposed to cynical) doubts, which make us suffer since all propositions may be doubted and this is part of intellectual and spiritual growth,
prodding us to study to learn; and God sometimes wills to take us off the milk of His spiritual delights in order that we may begin to walk by faith and not by an abundance of feelings. In such a time we are called to grow by groping after Him, like a deer that pines for still waters.
Even the greatest Saints needed a special grace to intuit Truth beyond words. How much more do people in our day need time to ponder the complexities and seeming conundrums of history and thought as they encounter new ways of looking at spiritual things.
I worked until very recently in a mental health facility / shelter for homeless persons, some with severe addictions, some with mental illnesses, some just down on their luck, very talented and smart. One man there who was suffering said to me that no one could say what happens after death since no one ever came back to tell about it. I reminded him of the Empty Tomb. He said to me that he could not believe in the Resurrection. It just seemed like a fairy tale to him. "Too good to be true?" I asked. He pondered and said, "maybe". Then he looked at me. "It's
that good," I said, meaning the Good News.
Another person told me she could believe Jesus was a prophet or 'Great Teacher' maybe, but not the Son of God. To this educated, philosophically inclined, woman that notion was difficult to understand. I asked, "you can accept Him as a prophet because of his teachings?" She nodded yes. "Then stay with that," I said, "until you can see more. 'Drink from your own well'. If you can't see more in time but live the light you do see, God will reward you with more graces for living up to the light you do see" (Rom 2:12-16). Follow Jesus the prophet, I said, as you see Him. Who knows what you will see later?" We discussed human suffering in the teachings of various religions and how in the Cross, according to Catholic theology, God assumed the burden and consequences of man's sin, without thereby assuming the guilt, at the same time bridging the distance between God and man vis a vis human suffering. I told her the Cross made it possible for me to love God despite the enormity of human suffering, because He has come to us, the culmination of all progressive revelation.
Then there was the time recently when a Fundamentalist came in and pronounced confidently that Mother Teresa was now receiving her just deserts in the "fires of Hell" for having followed the "works theology of the Roman Church". It was no easy thing to hold my Irish temper against such haughty judgements, but that would have done no good. So, instead, we began, at my suggestion, to talk about the relationship between Holy Scripture and Tradition which I knew would be productive eventually toward an understanding of how the early Church interpreted the words of St. Paul on justification, faith, works, etc. This man was not interested in ecumenical dialogue as such, so I would lead him into it gently, despite his prejudices. I told him it is no easy thing to know who is and who is not in Hell for in Matthew 25 it is all
surprises, those who thought themselves saved were lost and those who thought themselves lost were saved. It all seems to have revolved around Self--ishness and the readiness---or not---to receive the grace of God unto penance.
Grace Light leads to greater light, leading to even greater Lights, Actual graces to Actual graces, like beads on a rosary, until, if God so chooses, one ends up kneeling and adoring at His Nativity Cave and seeing the fullness of Catholic Truth. Faith is an encounter with the crucified and risen Lord, bound up with the inscrutable mysteries of divine providence and our own free will. And it leads us to the Church which Christ gifted to mankind.

The liberal error is to think the Light has no terminus, no goal which can be expressed through revelation and inspiration, that dialogue can come to no conclusion, no 'aye' or 'nay'. They reject the End, preferring the vanities of the search. The traditionalist error is to act like they alone
deserve the End, the goal, and spend endless hours anxiously debating and arguing and seeking out victims to prove that they are right. All of this is very sad and a kind of spiritual darkness. For before God humility is everything.
Theology is "faith seeking understanding." We "believe in order to understand," St. Anselm said. If we encounter Him in His Church it is not through any goodness or superior intellectual comprehension on our parts. It is His inscrutable grace. If one lives up to the light one has, even if its grasp is short of that ultimate revelation of the Word made Flesh (Jn 1:1-14) then one becomes one of the little flowers in God's garden, on the way, which St. Therese spoke of:
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JESUS DEIGNED TO teach me this mystery. He set before me the book of nature; I understood how all the flowers He has created are beautiful, how the splendor of the rose and the whiteness of the Lily do not take away the perfume of the little violet or the delightful simplicity of the daisy. I understood that if all flowers wanted to be roses, nature would lose her springtime beauty, and the fields would no longer be decked out with little wild flowers. And so it is in the world of souls, Jesus' garden. He willed to create great souls comparable to Lilies and roses, but He has created smaller ones and these must be content to be daisies or violets destined to give joy to God's glances when He looks down at His feet. Perfection consists in doing His will, in being what He wills us to be.
"JUST AS THE sun shines simultaneously on the tall cedars and on each little flower as though it were alone on the earth, so Our Lord is occupied particularly with each soul as though there were no others like it. And just as in nature all the seasons are arranged in such a way as to make the humblest daisy bloom on a set day, in the same way, everything works out for the good of each soul".
We need to be tender with people, tough only on ideas and bad or harmful agendas. We need to give people the space, the time, as we need(ed) it ourselves. True
Catholic 'ecumenism' is not compromise or bartering doctrine, and much less is it syncretism. It is love giving thanks for Love. What a joy to reflect on that. And sometimes (often) all we can do is speak the Truth (Jn 8:32) and trust the Holy Spirit to do the rest over time. He does not fail to follow through.
How does all of this apply to the Vatican II crisis?This is a Condemned Proposition: "Pagans, Jews, heretics, and others of this kind do not receive in any way any influence from Jesus Christ...in them is a bare and weak will without any sufficient grace." (DZ, 1295)
First of all, almost everyone has admitted (at least quietly) for some four decades that
there is a crisis...